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The Doula Guide

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The Doula Guide

A lot of dads have major reservations about hiring a doula. They think she will get in the way, take over his role and maybe even out-shine him during his wife's time of need.

I'm here to tell you these ideas, though valid, are simply not the case.

Think of birth as an exotic trip to a foreign city! The two of you are super excited and can't wait to see all the sights together. But there is a problem. You don't speak the native language and you've never driven on that side of the road before! Solution? You hire a guide. This guide is well versed in the native tongue and has seen all the sights in all their seasons. Your guide can navigate the land with ease and help you choose the best restaurants, comfortable hotel accommodations whilst providing you with the knowledge and history of the town.

Like this guide, a doula can be your interpreter. She is trained and knowledgeable of all those foreign birthy words like; lochia, perineum, ociput posterior, asynclitism, the ring of fire and so much more! She will assist you in becoming knowledgeable yourself; supporting you to make decisions based on what you've learned.

A doula can teach dad how to perform the Double Hip Squeeze and show him different ways to use a Rebozo. A doula can relieve dad while he needs to grab a bite or take a nap; knowing that his wife is taken care of by someone they both know and trust.

One of my favorite parts of birth is witnessing the intimacy between a couple. I'm focused on applying strong counter pressure to mom's back, while dad is forehead to forehead whispering how amazingly, strong and beautiful his wife is. Having a doula there to help dad navigate labor and birth is key.

So, book that trip! Plan for an amazing getaway with the comfort of knowing you will have a trained guide to help you on your way.

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Dare to be Great

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Dare to be Great

We've all seen that awesome 80's movie, Say Anything; the one where he holds up the boombox blasting Peter Gabriel's In Your Eyes, while wearing a fashionable brown trench coat. Did you know it was featured in nearby Seattle? I love movie trivia. In the movie John Cusack's character, Lloyd Dobler remarks, "I am looking for a dare to be great situation."

What's yours?

Is it the way you want to birth your child? At home, in a hospital, in a tub?

Is it the way you choose to feed your child? With your breast or a bottle?

Whatever philosophies you choose, they will be the right ones.

My "dare to be great situation" is to provide you with education, support and strength.  I do this by being your pillar, your shoulder, your doula.

I do see it...in your eyes. You hold the power, the light and the force. You are a mother. You are able. Instead of a boombox, I want to hold up a mirror for you. I want you to see with your own eyes how spectacular you are.

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Support Team

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Support Team

It is vital to have a great support team. The overflowing joy and love from those special people is amazing. They provide encouragement, understanding and tons of love.

Baby makes his debut during the witching hour? No problem. During the school performance of Romeo & Juliet? Piece of cake. Speaking of cake, we know sometimes those babies arrive on already established birthdays...no big deal. Why? Because having a baby is the most spectacular event that takes place on this planet. All the support makes these events that much more special.

The support team I'm talking about is MY family. That's right. My husband and our three sons. They know that my passion is serving you. They get it. They totally understand if I have to leave in the middle of whatever it is we're doing. They see how important my role is as YOUR support team.

I am forever grateful for the love and support my family provides.


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Why Do I Doula?

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Why Do I Doula?

There are a lot of reasons why I doula. The number one reason is: birth is exciting!

We've all heard that, "every pregnancy is different" - there is nothing but truth to that statement.

Every woman has expectations, hopes, fears and ideas of how her labor will pan out. Most of these thoughts are due to outside sources; television, movies, family, friends and even that frazzled mother at the park...

It's exciting for me to see the realization on an expecting parent's face when they discover their OWN birthing philosophies; one that is not swayed by anyone. Suddenly she is in control. Of her choices, of her providers, of her birthing location and especially her thought pattern.

These positive actions will lead to an outcome that is received and respected by herself; because she was in control and made decisions based on education and intuition.

That is why I doula. To be that pillar of education, support and love that defends your birthing philosophy. No matter what.

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